Ok im a 15 year old guy and i am fascinated at looking at hairy/older men. is there a problem with me? like ever since i was in 4th grade i love watching older men and sometimes i'll have fantasies about being with one of them. like some of my male teachers. am i gay? |
You're at an age where a stiff breeze can excite you, lol, but that doesn't answer your question, does it?
It's not unusual for teens to fantasize about older members of the same, or both, sexes and what you'd like to do and have done to you. It's actually to be expected because you are developing the ideas for both what "interests" as well as what you hope for your own appearance. You may not end up looking like what you hope you will, but it's part of the developmental process. The same thing can be said for the appearance of future sex partners.
As to the actual question of whether or not you're gay, that's going to take a bit longer. It's expected that you will experiment with friends both male and female as you go through puberty, but that doesn't mean anything. I fooled around with several friends when I was your age and they all married women and had families. I went the other way, so to speak, *chkl*. Give it time and it will explain itself. There isn't any rush, since this isn't a race.
The best thing I would recommend, though is to be careful and check into age of consent laws in your area. Don't do anything with anyone that could be risky for both of you in every sense of the word. Be safe and good luck. |
I love hairy/older men and like i dont know y? ok im 16 and like i wanna know if i have a problem because i love hairy/older men or if it is normal? and does it make me gay? please let me know if it is a problem because i wanna know. |
You seem to be attracted to older men, so that would make you gay.
Unless you're sexually attracted to females too, which would make you bisexual.
For someone who is gay or bi, I don't think there's anything wrong with liking older men. I'm kind of the same. I'm 15 (and gay), and generally find men more attractive than guys my own age. |
I love older/hairy men and i dont know why? i am 16 and like i wanna know if i have a problem because i have a thing for older/hairy men. and i would also want to know like why i have this problem. |
| Lol I was watching My Life on the D List, with my gf and those hairy gay men are called "bears" and I guess your just into the scruffy look? Make sure there's no lice when you play though, and you should try to look but dont touch until your 18 wouldnt want Shaggy in trouble would we? |
My brother is attracted to hairy and older men.? I don't know if this is normal for a 14 year old, but he is openly gay and has a fetish for men with hairy chests and big muscles and beards. |
| the only problem i see here is hes fourteen and meeting with older men on the internet... |
Why do I get attracted to Older husky, hairy gay men when I am only 33? Many guys age want to date me but I like daddies with a belly and hair! |
dude if thatz ur thing...go for it!
itz just what ur into
n ur not a minor! so itz perfectly legal!
i have a neighbor who fitz ur description!! lol (yall should totally hook up) ohh n he has a harley too!! lol |
Is it weird that I am only attracted to much older men? Hi, I'm a 17 year old guy. Is it strange that I find myself attracted to much older, hairy, overweight men? No, this is not a joke, and I'm not trying to troll you guys or anything, I just want to know if I'm weird or something. I've been having these feelings since I was about 12 or 13 |
| It's not weird at all. Everyone has his or her own likes and dislikes. So you like older guys with hairy bodies and a little heavy, it doesn't matter. If you like that then go for it. do not care what others like or say. Do what makes you happy and be with someone who makes you happy! Good luck to ya! |
How do i find a older hairy man when im a 16 male that lives in the bay area? its hard to find one when your bi |
| Normal gay bear men wouldn't date a 16 year old, wait till your 18 or look for someone your own age for the time being |
Im attracted to fat hairy old men, is there something wrong with me? lately i've been feeling attracted old men. THE QUESTION SAYS IT ALL ;) please help????!!!!!! ILY guys!! xx mwa |
| There is a group of people who find older people more attractive. A cousin of mine married early 20s to a guy of 45 and they are a very happy couple with guys. It's what's right for you that's important as everyone should have a partner that they like not what others think is right. You don't give your age but if you are under the age of consent in your state or country and are caught having had sex with an adult then he will go to prison and likely you will have a very nasty day telling what happened to a court room full of people, with a police prosecutor and a defence lawyers asking the most intimate questions about sex between you and the guy. |