Men Spanking Women more Natural than Women Spanking Men? I don't want to go into the details about what led me to ask this but do you think that it's more ridicules to see a grown woman spanking a grown man, than it is to see a grown man spanking a grown woman? I think so and I am a woman! The thought of seeing a woman trying to put a man over her knee and spank him just makes me laugh and just doesn't look normal. But I can picture a man putting a woman over his knee and spanking her, it seems more natural. Men are bigger and stronger and instinctively more dominant. Even when you look at old movies, it's always the guy putting the girl over his lap and spanking her, you never see it the other way around, I think there's a reason for that. Now I'm not supporting domestic abuse at all, besides spanking IS NOT abuse, but let's just say my husband has had to put me over his knee once or twice for a "talk" about my attitude, but I couldn't and wouldn't imagine me taking him and putting him on my lap and spanking him, it's too weird and kinda grosses me out, it would just emasculate him. And I at least felt more feminine when I was over his knee. Any way what do you think, just picture it. And I'm not talking about "sexual" spankings either, real ones for punishment. What's more ridicules to you? |
Sounds like you are comfortable with stereotypes and gender roles. While it isn't my thing by a long shot, I can live and let live. So while to me spanking between adults isn't "natural", it's perfectly fine if you find it to be so for yourself. It is your life and your marriage and you can handle both (or let your husband handle them, rather) any way you want. Yes, men spanking women is more common and therefore seems more normal to people like you, but if a person tries to be objective and open minded? They wouldn't see it the same way.
As for what is more ridiculous to me, I can not decide. Both for instances are something I would not only refer from trying, but also don't enjoy the thought of. Maybe it's the fact that I am 100% for equal treatment and don't follow gender roles. Maybe it's because I am generally too dominant to find submitting to a man "natural", let alone letting him spank me for my "attitude". Maybe it's because I associate spanking with inappropriate punishment for guyren. Or maybe it's because a grown man spanking a grown woman borders on abuse if the woman doesn't want or enjoy it.
Either way, spanking is ridiculous to me in general. Not natural, not normal. Just ridiculous. |
Are any women into spanking men while wearing their lingerie, caught in the panty drawer so to speak? I truly wish I didn't like this, I feel like a total freak and the older I get, I'm tired of denying myself these pleasures |
| OMG, you just describe my favorite thing! Spanking crossdressers! Too bad I'm taken. :-( But rest assured, there are a lot of men out there like you. And there are women who like them. |
What do you think of men spanking women? ( Like on I Love Lucy show ) I think it is ridicules.? I know friends of mine that is what there relationship is, I just can not stand a comtroling person in a relationship. I am just wonering what others thimk. |
| i think that spanking is just one more way for men to put women in the subservient position that ensures their power.any guy who gets off on being powerful over a woman should seek help . as women we should be holding our men to a higher standard . popular culture should not dictate the norm. |
How many women actually get off on spanking men? From what I have read, this seems to be mainly a male fantasy. Are there really female spankos out there? |
I enjoy spanking my man but not to the extent that he spanks my @ss. He has big, strong hands and is not afraid to use them. Mmmmm
I could learn to do it more to please him. Of course, I wouldn't just look for any guy to have that kind of fun with. |
Do women like spanking men? Why? How Hard? Does this give you a sense of power...to have a man naked over your lap etc.? |
yes i like to spank my man, during missionary position and i slap hard. Why? have you ever felt it? i get spanked when i get it from behind and it is unbelievable, the sensation of pain and pleasure at the same time. try it, you'll like it.
A man over my lap? nope, dont think i wold want that |
Music video in mansion with woman spanking men with white glove? What's the name of the music group where there's a woman with a white glove in a large mansion spanking men? It's a funny music video. I just cant' remember the name. |
It is by Armand Van Helden and the song is "Hear My Name" you can watch the video here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=C11ftLeMjlw
She is Also known as or been a part of these groups: Deep Creed, Sultans of Swing, Banji Boys, Circle Guyren, Old School Junkies, Jungle Juice, Armand & The Banana Spliffs, Hardhead, Wizzards of Wax, The Mole People, Chupacabra, Duck Sauce |
Are there women who like spanking men? for what purpose?. just curious. im male btw
thanks.
ive never experienced it before. i know this may sound weird, but i would like to though sometime. |
| Umm no. Im not a manly woman. |